Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
just a fun and interest thread, just wanted to know what kind of girls you guys are gaming right now. descriptions, what you've done right or wrong so far, etc
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
IOriginally posted by TheKarnivalShow
My goal is to F*** her and that may take a while since she wears one of those true love waits rings but I can do it.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Honesty is a forgotten virtue these days, player.Originally posted by Bling
I don't even know if she's 5 foot, Puerto Rican (I'm Cuban), black hair, brown eyes, she doesn't have dark skin. Has no body, but she's feeling me. I'm not experienced (I'm more of an armchair seducer), so although she's not my #1, I got to start somewhere.
Thanks.Originally posted by Cloud-uk
Honesty is a forgotten virtue these days, player.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Damn you know a good looking girl with brown hair and green eyes? My personal favourate can't find any where I live though.Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
this girl is caucasian but i think she has darker skin in her background somewhere, brown hair, piercing green eyes, AMAZING body... and she's the most baffling girl i've ever tried to hook up with. i haven't been able to make a move on her yet because she's playing the same games as me, which is keeping us apart. she sends all the obvious signals, ie kino, eye contact, walking so close to me she's practically stepping on me, etc however she also does things for herself, not for others, much like we are educated to do. and she does the whole flirt then not flirt thing too.
It's basically a habit from writing e-mails to friends. Animal is my nickname. Don't worry wandering is a great thing to do in life, just don't get lostOriginally posted by wavejams007
Not to criticize you alpha animal, but why do you always finish your posts with "animal"? Just wandering.