Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
just a fun and interest thread, just wanted to know what kind of girls you guys are gaming right now. descriptions, what you've done right or wrong so far, etc
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
IOriginally posted by TheKarnivalShow
My goal is to F*** her and that may take a while since she wears one of those true love waits rings but I can do it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Honesty is a forgotten virtue these days, player.Originally posted by Bling
I don't even know if she's 5 foot, Puerto Rican (I'm Cuban), black hair, brown eyes, she doesn't have dark skin. Has no body, but she's feeling me. I'm not experienced (I'm more of an armchair seducer), so although she's not my #1, I got to start somewhere.
Thanks.Originally posted by Cloud-uk
Honesty is a forgotten virtue these days, player.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Damn you know a good looking girl with brown hair and green eyes? My personal favourate can't find any where I live though.Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
this girl is caucasian but i think she has darker skin in her background somewhere, brown hair, piercing green eyes, AMAZING body... and she's the most baffling girl i've ever tried to hook up with. i haven't been able to make a move on her yet because she's playing the same games as me, which is keeping us apart. she sends all the obvious signals, ie kino, eye contact, walking so close to me she's practically stepping on me, etc however she also does things for herself, not for others, much like we are educated to do. and she does the whole flirt then not flirt thing too.
It's basically a habit from writing e-mails to friends. Animal is my nickname. Don't worry wandering is a great thing to do in life, just don't get lostOriginally posted by wavejams007
Not to criticize you alpha animal, but why do you always finish your posts with "animal"? Just wandering.