Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
just a fun and interest thread, just wanted to know what kind of girls you guys are gaming right now. descriptions, what you've done right or wrong so far, etc
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
IOriginally posted by TheKarnivalShow
My goal is to F*** her and that may take a while since she wears one of those true love waits rings but I can do it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Honesty is a forgotten virtue these days, player.Originally posted by Bling
I don't even know if she's 5 foot, Puerto Rican (I'm Cuban), black hair, brown eyes, she doesn't have dark skin. Has no body, but she's feeling me. I'm not experienced (I'm more of an armchair seducer), so although she's not my #1, I got to start somewhere.
Thanks.Originally posted by Cloud-uk
Honesty is a forgotten virtue these days, player.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Damn you know a good looking girl with brown hair and green eyes? My personal favourate can't find any where I live though.Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
this girl is caucasian but i think she has darker skin in her background somewhere, brown hair, piercing green eyes, AMAZING body... and she's the most baffling girl i've ever tried to hook up with. i haven't been able to make a move on her yet because she's playing the same games as me, which is keeping us apart. she sends all the obvious signals, ie kino, eye contact, walking so close to me she's practically stepping on me, etc however she also does things for herself, not for others, much like we are educated to do. and she does the whole flirt then not flirt thing too.
It's basically a habit from writing e-mails to friends. Animal is my nickname. Don't worry wandering is a great thing to do in life, just don't get lostOriginally posted by wavejams007
Not to criticize you alpha animal, but why do you always finish your posts with "animal"? Just wandering.