"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who are YOU Gaming?

Mr. Debonaire

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just a fun and interest thread, just wanted to know what kind of girls you guys are gaming right now. descriptions, what you've done right or wrong so far, etc
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I got a girls number last night from hooters. She texted me when she got off which was REAL unexpected. I just gotta try and not to f*ck it up.
 

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The girl I met at the party last night, who taught me that having stuff in common matters a whole bucket of jack-**** compared to that obvious "click" of interest. Ho hum.
 

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I almost lost the girl I'm working on right now because a few weeks ago I would listen to her problems, a rare AFC relapse, but last week I told myself to be a man and by the end of the week we were making out in the movie theatre.

Up next for us is a drive in movie. I believe this is probably the best date you can have really, you watch two movies back to back so it makes the date longer than the usual movie date and your in the confines of a car so you guys can talk or whatever at your own convience. My goal is to F*** her and that may take a while since she wears one of those true love waits rings but I can do it. :cool:
 
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Originally posted by TheKarnivalShow
My goal is to F*** her and that may take a while since she wears one of those true love waits rings but I can do it.
I

fucking

hate

those.

my newest fvck buddy (well, guess not actually) is coming over in a couple of hours and informed me a couple of nights ago that she took a chastity vow when she was 14. and I just ended things with the one who likely would have had sex with me...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't even know if she's 5 foot, Puerto Rican (I'm Cuban), black hair, brown eyes, she doesn't have dark skin. Has no body, but she's feeling me. I'm not experienced (I'm more of an armchair seducer), so although she's not my #1, I got to start somewhere.
 

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Originally posted by Bling
I don't even know if she's 5 foot, Puerto Rican (I'm Cuban), black hair, brown eyes, she doesn't have dark skin. Has no body, but she's feeling me. I'm not experienced (I'm more of an armchair seducer), so although she's not my #1, I got to start somewhere.
Honesty is a forgotten virtue these days, player.
 

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I guess since this is my post i have to join it.

I've got several. One girl thats so in love with me it hurts, reddish-hair, nice bod. i'm almost literally beating her off with a stick. another girl that has a boyfriend now but was liking me long beforehand and would leave him in an instant if i asked. great body, average face.

and then, the real prize. this girl is caucasian but i think she has darker skin in her background somewhere, brown hair, piercing green eyes, AMAZING body... and she's the most baffling girl i've ever tried to hook up with. i haven't been able to make a move on her yet because she's playing the same games as me, which is keeping us apart. she sends all the obvious signals, ie kino, eye contact, walking so close to me she's practically stepping on me, etc however she also does things for herself, not for others, much like we are educated to do. and she does the whole flirt then not flirt thing too.

these are just the ones im gaming, theres 3 or four other girls that i could get with easily if i took the time, but im not interested
 

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err well just the one, shes givin me all the signals, hooked up, but then i finds out she has bf. sed to her u shud of told me i wud never have done out if i new.....did i do the right thing?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Right now there is a girl at school, tight package, nice bod, half-latin like me. She loves my sense of humor. We work out together usually( excellent hang-out tie together, U SHOULD TRY IT) I don't suffer from oneitis, but there aren't really other girls right now either.
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
this girl is caucasian but i think she has darker skin in her background somewhere, brown hair, piercing green eyes, AMAZING body... and she's the most baffling girl i've ever tried to hook up with. i haven't been able to make a move on her yet because she's playing the same games as me, which is keeping us apart. she sends all the obvious signals, ie kino, eye contact, walking so close to me she's practically stepping on me, etc however she also does things for herself, not for others, much like we are educated to do. and she does the whole flirt then not flirt thing too.
Damn you know a good looking girl with brown hair and green eyes? My personal favourate can't find any where I live though.

At the moment I have only 2 girls Im seriously gaming. Ones a really hot girl from sixth form. Brown hair, brown eyes(unfortunately:() I'm slowly winning her over the only problem is that Im in Year 10 and shes in year 13. Normally this wouldn't be bad but because shes in the same school its a bit harder which makes it more interesting:D.
Another in Year 11 who is like the 2nd hottest girl in year 11 and below blue eyes, blonde hair, good body the typical cheerleader type. The problem with her is shes dating a guy who would absolutely kick my ass so I cautious with flirting with her.
I game any good looking girl for the rush and challange though. What was once a fear has turned into one of my main hobbys, weird how the world works:D.

Animal
 

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Not to criticize you alpha animal, but why do you always finish your posts with "animal"? Just wandering.
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Not to criticize you alpha animal, but why do you always finish your posts with "animal"? Just wandering.
It's basically a habit from writing e-mails to friends. Animal is my nickname. Don't worry wandering is a great thing to do in life, just don't get lost:D.

Animal:D
 
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