"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Are Those Posters???

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A few months ago, I stumbled on SoSuave as I wanted to understand better the whole woman/relationship thing.

But as I read in a thread somewhere, and I’m paraphrasing from memory “ I thought that coming to this site it would mean that it would get easier with woman, but in fact it has got harder…..no, no not harder….but truer”. And in fact this has been so true.

I don’t find myself any more reading the posts about what tip and tactics are the best and how to act when this happens or what to do when that happens – (it’s all the same thing over and over again).

The best thing about this board is that there are very intelligent people in this world that give their honest opinion not just on women, but on life in general, and these posts generate the most interest to me. It’s not just one person’s opinion, but many opinions. I recently read a thread on ‘Leadership’ and this rings more true than any single book I have read on the subject.

I firmly believe that in order to get right with the world, you need to get right with yourself first.

So my question to the masses: Who are the posters/threads who have hard core and insight on subjects such as leadership, confidence, passion etc. You know the people I’m talking about, the ones that when they post you read because of the truth they speak.

Thanks for everyone’s help.[/FONT]
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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and ofcourse DrBeard.:D

there might be couple of more, but i don't feel like tracking down their names....
 

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Which thread did you read that was centered around "leadership"?

I have a hard time finding those ones:blush:
 

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flippinfreak said:
Which thread did you read that was centered around "leadership"?

I have a hard time finding those ones:blush:

The post was " how I can be a leader amoung men" by Theory of Knowledge
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NOOOO Docs, give freely to the world. Only the people who put active practice will make any use of it. The AFC's will get an idea of what they can do with their futures...

blueblue, ask socialreject and A-Unit for some advice. social reject seems more natural, but A-Unit has an encyclopedia for a brain so he could shed some light on many of the questions if you give him a respectable challenge.
 

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lol trolls won't give a crap. They'll tease and bother you about it than forget about it by the time they post their next set of inults and attention grabbing comments.
 

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lol....ok




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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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