"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Are Those Posters???

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A few months ago, I stumbled on SoSuave as I wanted to understand better the whole woman/relationship thing.

But as I read in a thread somewhere, and I’m paraphrasing from memory “ I thought that coming to this site it would mean that it would get easier with woman, but in fact it has got harder…..no, no not harder….but truer”. And in fact this has been so true.

I don’t find myself any more reading the posts about what tip and tactics are the best and how to act when this happens or what to do when that happens – (it’s all the same thing over and over again).

The best thing about this board is that there are very intelligent people in this world that give their honest opinion not just on women, but on life in general, and these posts generate the most interest to me. It’s not just one person’s opinion, but many opinions. I recently read a thread on ‘Leadership’ and this rings more true than any single book I have read on the subject.

I firmly believe that in order to get right with the world, you need to get right with yourself first.

So my question to the masses: Who are the posters/threads who have hard core and insight on subjects such as leadership, confidence, passion etc. You know the people I’m talking about, the ones that when they post you read because of the truth they speak.

Thanks for everyone’s help.[/FONT]
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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and ofcourse DrBeard.:D

there might be couple of more, but i don't feel like tracking down their names....
 

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Which thread did you read that was centered around "leadership"?

I have a hard time finding those ones:blush:
 

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flippinfreak said:
Which thread did you read that was centered around "leadership"?

I have a hard time finding those ones:blush:

The post was " how I can be a leader amoung men" by Theory of Knowledge
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NOOOO Docs, give freely to the world. Only the people who put active practice will make any use of it. The AFC's will get an idea of what they can do with their futures...

blueblue, ask socialreject and A-Unit for some advice. social reject seems more natural, but A-Unit has an encyclopedia for a brain so he could shed some light on many of the questions if you give him a respectable challenge.
 

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lol trolls won't give a crap. They'll tease and bother you about it than forget about it by the time they post their next set of inults and attention grabbing comments.
 

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lol....ok




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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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