"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Are Those Posters???

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A few months ago, I stumbled on SoSuave as I wanted to understand better the whole woman/relationship thing.

But as I read in a thread somewhere, and I’m paraphrasing from memory “ I thought that coming to this site it would mean that it would get easier with woman, but in fact it has got harder…..no, no not harder….but truer”. And in fact this has been so true.

I don’t find myself any more reading the posts about what tip and tactics are the best and how to act when this happens or what to do when that happens – (it’s all the same thing over and over again).

The best thing about this board is that there are very intelligent people in this world that give their honest opinion not just on women, but on life in general, and these posts generate the most interest to me. It’s not just one person’s opinion, but many opinions. I recently read a thread on ‘Leadership’ and this rings more true than any single book I have read on the subject.

I firmly believe that in order to get right with the world, you need to get right with yourself first.

So my question to the masses: Who are the posters/threads who have hard core and insight on subjects such as leadership, confidence, passion etc. You know the people I’m talking about, the ones that when they post you read because of the truth they speak.

Thanks for everyone’s help.[/FONT]
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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and ofcourse DrBeard.:D

there might be couple of more, but i don't feel like tracking down their names....
 
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Which thread did you read that was centered around "leadership"?

I have a hard time finding those ones:blush:
 
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flippinfreak said:
Which thread did you read that was centered around "leadership"?

I have a hard time finding those ones:blush:
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The post was " how I can be a leader amoung men" by Theory of Knowledge
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NOOOO Docs, give freely to the world. Only the people who put active practice will make any use of it. The AFC's will get an idea of what they can do with their futures...

blueblue, ask socialreject and A-Unit for some advice. social reject seems more natural, but A-Unit has an encyclopedia for a brain so he could shed some light on many of the questions if you give him a respectable challenge.
 
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lol trolls won't give a crap. They'll tease and bother you about it than forget about it by the time they post their next set of inults and attention grabbing comments.
 
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lol....ok




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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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