"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who Are Those Posters???

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A few months ago, I stumbled on SoSuave as I wanted to understand better the whole woman/relationship thing.

But as I read in a thread somewhere, and I’m paraphrasing from memory “ I thought that coming to this site it would mean that it would get easier with woman, but in fact it has got harder…..no, no not harder….but truer”. And in fact this has been so true.

I don’t find myself any more reading the posts about what tip and tactics are the best and how to act when this happens or what to do when that happens – (it’s all the same thing over and over again).

The best thing about this board is that there are very intelligent people in this world that give their honest opinion not just on women, but on life in general, and these posts generate the most interest to me. It’s not just one person’s opinion, but many opinions. I recently read a thread on ‘Leadership’ and this rings more true than any single book I have read on the subject.

I firmly believe that in order to get right with the world, you need to get right with yourself first.

So my question to the masses: Who are the posters/threads who have hard core and insight on subjects such as leadership, confidence, passion etc. You know the people I’m talking about, the ones that when they post you read because of the truth they speak.

Thanks for everyone’s help.[/FONT]
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rollo Tomassi
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syncmaster

and ofcourse DrBeard.:D

there might be couple of more, but i don't feel like tracking down their names....
 

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Which thread did you read that was centered around "leadership"?

I have a hard time finding those ones:blush:
 

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flippinfreak said:
Which thread did you read that was centered around "leadership"?

I have a hard time finding those ones:blush:

The post was " how I can be a leader amoung men" by Theory of Knowledge
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NOOOO Docs, give freely to the world. Only the people who put active practice will make any use of it. The AFC's will get an idea of what they can do with their futures...

blueblue, ask socialreject and A-Unit for some advice. social reject seems more natural, but A-Unit has an encyclopedia for a brain so he could shed some light on many of the questions if you give him a respectable challenge.
 

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lol trolls won't give a crap. They'll tease and bother you about it than forget about it by the time they post their next set of inults and attention grabbing comments.
 

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lol....ok




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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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