"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt

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It's not a matter of who goes out there and 'approachs',it's a matter of how much YOU want to learn and experiment on your own.

We can post on and on,whether it be good or bad advice,in the end it's all up to you to figure out what works for you. I can post what works for me,then who knows maybe it works for everyone else on here,maybe it doesn't. The results would be someone calls my advice/expierence crap or someone can live their life buy it. It's up to you to go out 'there' and learn.

Good Luck!
 

PigAdlemPimp

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Everyone is an AlphaMale in his own eyes, you will never get the truth on a thread like this. :confused:
 

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You know, I try when I have the chance. But for the past 5 years I've lived in the middle of no where and gone to a really hard college. So, while I probably don't have the most experience, I am taking the next year off from academia (I'm finishing my BS and will be applying to grad schools this year) and focusing on the women.

Having said that, I hope to god no one's reading this site and taking its suggestions too seriously.
 

crossboss

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blinkwatt said:
It's not a matter of who goes out there and 'approachs',it's a matter of how much YOU want to learn and experiment on your own.

We can post on and on,whether it be good or bad advice,in the end it's all up to you to figure out what works for you. I can post what works for me,then who knows maybe it works for everyone else on here,maybe it doesn't. The results would be someone calls my advice/expierence crap or someone can live their life buy it. It's up to you to go out 'there' and learn.

Good Luck!
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Phyzzle

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You want to learn from cold approach reports? Check out "small town sarging" in the arcive by norpacwolf.

I started posting here a year ago when I moved to a new country. My social life started from scratch here, and is still kind of slow. Thats why I have time to post!

The top guys dont post here for long . . .
 
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