flows101
Don Juan
Who are the top guys on this forum who go out and "approach" DO NOT POST IF YOU ARE NOT ONE OF THEM. I would like to know who's advice i can trust when posting for advice or tips thanks in advance.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Who are the top guys on this forum
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's not a matter of who goes out there and 'approachs',it's a matter of how much YOU want to learn and experiment on your own.
We can post on and on,whether it be good or bad advice,in the end it's all up to you to figure out what works for you. I can post what works for me,then who knows maybe it works for everyone else on here,maybe it doesn't. The results would be someone calls my advice/expierence crap or someone can live their life buy it. It's up to you to go out 'there' and learn.
Good Luck!
We can post on and on,whether it be good or bad advice,in the end it's all up to you to figure out what works for you. I can post what works for me,then who knows maybe it works for everyone else on here,maybe it doesn't. The results would be someone calls my advice/expierence crap or someone can live their life buy it. It's up to you to go out 'there' and learn.
Good Luck!
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Everyone is an AlphaMale in his own eyes, you will never get the truth on a thread like this. 
You know, I try when I have the chance. But for the past 5 years I've lived in the middle of no where and gone to a really hard college. So, while I probably don't have the most experience, I am taking the next year off from academia (I'm finishing my BS and will be applying to grad schools this year) and focusing on the women.
Having said that, I hope to god no one's reading this site and taking its suggestions too seriously.
Having said that, I hope to god no one's reading this site and taking its suggestions too seriously.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You want to learn from cold approach reports? Check out "small town sarging" in the arcive by norpacwolf.
I started posting here a year ago when I moved to a new country. My social life started from scratch here, and is still kind of slow. Thats why I have time to post!
The top guys dont post here for long . . .
I started posting here a year ago when I moved to a new country. My social life started from scratch here, and is still kind of slow. Thats why I have time to post!
The top guys dont post here for long . . .