flows101
Don Juan
Who are the top guys on this forum who go out and "approach" DO NOT POST IF YOU ARE NOT ONE OF THEM. I would like to know who's advice i can trust when posting for advice or tips thanks in advance.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Who are the top guys on this forum
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's not a matter of who goes out there and 'approachs',it's a matter of how much YOU want to learn and experiment on your own.
We can post on and on,whether it be good or bad advice,in the end it's all up to you to figure out what works for you. I can post what works for me,then who knows maybe it works for everyone else on here,maybe it doesn't. The results would be someone calls my advice/expierence crap or someone can live their life buy it. It's up to you to go out 'there' and learn.
Good Luck!
We can post on and on,whether it be good or bad advice,in the end it's all up to you to figure out what works for you. I can post what works for me,then who knows maybe it works for everyone else on here,maybe it doesn't. The results would be someone calls my advice/expierence crap or someone can live their life buy it. It's up to you to go out 'there' and learn.
Good Luck!
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Everyone is an AlphaMale in his own eyes, you will never get the truth on a thread like this. 
You know, I try when I have the chance. But for the past 5 years I've lived in the middle of no where and gone to a really hard college. So, while I probably don't have the most experience, I am taking the next year off from academia (I'm finishing my BS and will be applying to grad schools this year) and focusing on the women.
Having said that, I hope to god no one's reading this site and taking its suggestions too seriously.
Having said that, I hope to god no one's reading this site and taking its suggestions too seriously.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You want to learn from cold approach reports? Check out "small town sarging" in the arcive by norpacwolf.
I started posting here a year ago when I moved to a new country. My social life started from scratch here, and is still kind of slow. Thats why I have time to post!
The top guys dont post here for long . . .
I started posting here a year ago when I moved to a new country. My social life started from scratch here, and is still kind of slow. Thats why I have time to post!
The top guys dont post here for long . . .