flows101
Don Juan
Who are the top guys on this forum who go out and "approach" DO NOT POST IF YOU ARE NOT ONE OF THEM. I would like to know who's advice i can trust when posting for advice or tips thanks in advance.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Who are the top guys on this forum
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It's not a matter of who goes out there and 'approachs',it's a matter of how much YOU want to learn and experiment on your own.
We can post on and on,whether it be good or bad advice,in the end it's all up to you to figure out what works for you. I can post what works for me,then who knows maybe it works for everyone else on here,maybe it doesn't. The results would be someone calls my advice/expierence crap or someone can live their life buy it. It's up to you to go out 'there' and learn.
Good Luck!
We can post on and on,whether it be good or bad advice,in the end it's all up to you to figure out what works for you. I can post what works for me,then who knows maybe it works for everyone else on here,maybe it doesn't. The results would be someone calls my advice/expierence crap or someone can live their life buy it. It's up to you to go out 'there' and learn.
Good Luck!
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Everyone is an AlphaMale in his own eyes, you will never get the truth on a thread like this. 
You know, I try when I have the chance. But for the past 5 years I've lived in the middle of no where and gone to a really hard college. So, while I probably don't have the most experience, I am taking the next year off from academia (I'm finishing my BS and will be applying to grad schools this year) and focusing on the women.
Having said that, I hope to god no one's reading this site and taking its suggestions too seriously.
Having said that, I hope to god no one's reading this site and taking its suggestions too seriously.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You want to learn from cold approach reports? Check out "small town sarging" in the arcive by norpacwolf.
I started posting here a year ago when I moved to a new country. My social life started from scratch here, and is still kind of slow. Thats why I have time to post!
The top guys dont post here for long . . .
I started posting here a year ago when I moved to a new country. My social life started from scratch here, and is still kind of slow. Thats why I have time to post!
The top guys dont post here for long . . .