You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LOL...I second that!Gray The Prince said:
No one said they were destined to fail. Like in any aspect of society, the minorities have to work harder than majorities do to be on the same level.jglide123 said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's true to a degree, but this isn't the 20's bro. Anyone who wants success (business, dating, etc.) can achieve it. Will you encounter racist people in your life? Sure, but look at people in history like Booker T. Washington and W.E.B. DuBois. They achieved great prominence during highly racist times in America.SeymourCake said:
This message board is full of white guys who suck at dating. In fact, I'd say that the majority of guys here are white.SeymourCake said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I agree. If you put a white guy and any other race who share the same qualities in everything else in front of a random sample of 1000 women, jobs, etc..., the white guy will win out. It's not about being lazy and wanting the easy way, it's just a fact. Sorry but the world just isn't as color blind as you think it is.SeymourCake said:
I like your wisdom and think it carries value...but must you really act like you're in a court all the time? And saying case closed after you offer your opinion?nismo-4 said:
And this is probably the reason why he is a mod, till now he is only one that didnt start the " pre-ordered reaction" to the race topic..credit to you Atom, pity cannot give u repAtom Smasher said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
