"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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White men have the advantage in the dating world

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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jglide123 said:
Wow...so you think that because you're non-White, you're somehow destined for failure?
No one said they were destined to fail. Like in any aspect of society, the minorities have to work harder than majorities do to be on the same level.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SeymourCake said:
No one said they were destined to fail. Like in any aspect of society, the minorities have to work harder than majorities do to be on the same level.
That's true to a degree, but this isn't the 20's bro. Anyone who wants success (business, dating, etc.) can achieve it. Will you encounter racist people in your life? Sure, but look at people in history like Booker T. Washington and W.E.B. DuBois. They achieved great prominence during highly racist times in America.

Not to go into preach mode, but I feel like most people want it easy in life. Fact is, though, people of all shades have adversity in their life bro. Not to be an A hole, but grow up!
 

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You can make a fortune in the US, completely anonymously, thru netsites, inventions, writing, etc. Nobody needs to know what color you are to send money to you. Money is the key, cause it frees you up to learn, to travel, and take the time needed to find decent women.
 

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SeymourCake said:
No one said they were destined to fail. Like in any aspect of society, the minorities have to work harder than majorities do to be on the same level.
This message board is full of white guys who suck at dating. In fact, I'd say that the majority of guys here are white.

Regardless of everything, it's dumb to complain about something you can't change. Even if it were true, your choice is to adapt or to fail. Whining solves nothing.
 

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IBTL! :cheer:

Life ain't fair. No Sh*t Sherlock. :yawn:

The mods are hereby ordered to lock this thread. :yes:

Case closed. Get out of my court. :rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SeymourCake said:
No one said they were destined to fail. Like in any aspect of society, the minorities have to work harder than majorities do to be on the same level.
I agree. If you put a white guy and any other race who share the same qualities in everything else in front of a random sample of 1000 women, jobs, etc..., the white guy will win out. It's not about being lazy and wanting the easy way, it's just a fact. Sorry but the world just isn't as color blind as you think it is.
 

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nismo-4 said:
IBTL! :cheer:

Life ain't fair. No Sh*t Sherlock. :yawn:

The mods are hereby ordered to lock this thread. :yes:

Case closed. Get out of my court. :rockon:
I like your wisdom and think it carries value...but must you really act like you're in a court all the time? And saying case closed after you offer your opinion?

It's like you're playing some alter ego...
 

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I think it's absolutely absurd to lock a thread simply because the subject matter is race. Race is a fact of life, a factor in game, and there should be freedom to discuss this REALITY.

I never did understand this knee-jerk reaction to a civil discussion about race as it relates to dealing with women. It reminds me of women who recoil when guns are mentioned and they say, "Guns are bad". No rhyme or reason, no understanding of the complexity of the issue, just a naive emotion that guns are "bad" because of what they are used for.

Will it get out of hand? Almost certainly, and at that time I'll lock it down. In the meantime, we're all big boys here and shouldn't wring our hands in dread because the subject of race is being discussed. Let it go until someone screws it up. It might be that some good and/or interesting insights could surface. Finger is near the trigger but not on it.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
I think it's absolutely absurd to lock a thread simply because the subject matter is race. Race is a fact of life, a factor in game, and there should be freedom to discuss this REALITY.

I never did understand this knee-jerk reaction to a civil discussion about race as it relates to dealing with women. It reminds me of women who recoil when guns are mentioned and they say, "Guns are bad". No rhyme or reason, no understanding of the complexity of the issue, just a naive emotion that guns are "bad" because of what they are used for.

Will it get out of hand? Almost certainly, and at that time I'll lock it down. In the meantime, we're all big boys here and shouldn't wring our hands in dread because the subject of race is being discussed. Let it go until someone screws it up. It might be that some good and/or interesting insights could surface. Finger is near the trigger but not on it.
And this is probably the reason why he is a mod, till now he is only one that didnt start the " pre-ordered reaction" to the race topic..credit to you Atom, pity cannot give u rep

"deny and ban the topic", directive nr.2 of political correctcness manual, keep following it guys...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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