"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
And you clearly have no credibility as you refuse to tell me why crowes was banned.
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And as I already explained to you, I have no motivation or desire to tell you that which is really none of your business to begin with.

Plus, it's much more amusing for me to have you regale me with your delusional fantasies about why you think he might have gotten banned.
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Allen is the only one with the power to ban people. Obviously the owner of the site is just as incompetent as his moderators are.
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MAJOR FLAME BAITER TO THE SITE OWNER ADMINISTRATOR
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
And as I already explained to you, I have no motivation or desire to tell you that which is really none of your business to begin with.

Plus, it's much more amusing for me to have you regale me with your delusional fantasies about why you think he might have gotten banned.
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What I'm saying makes more sense than what you are saying. Crowes has no reason to post that he wants to meet up with you in person. If you think I'm actually going to believe that he wanted a gay date with you, you're sorely mistaken.

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MAJOR FLAME BAITER TO THE SITE OWNER ADMINISTRATOR
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Be a good girl and silence yourself.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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400th post!!!!

Flame flame flame

SPAM SPAM SPAM

:D :D :D :D :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
What I'm saying makes more sense than what you are saying. Crowes has no reason to post that he wants to meet up with you in person. If you think I'm actually going to believe that he wanted a gay date with you, you're sorely mistaken.
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No one edited anything that Crowes said. It's not my problem if you do or don't believe that he wrote it -- it doesn't change the fact that he did.

Now whether that means he wanted a gay date or not... well, that's a judgement you can make for yourself.
 
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Crowes is fully responsible for crowes being banned.
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Wow so he just upped and snapped all of a sudden out of the blue all by himself?

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I'm only seeing one mod here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
No one edited anything that Crowes said. It's not my problem if you do or don't believe that he wrote it -- it doesn't change the fact that he did.

Now whether that means he wanted a gay date or not... well, that's a judgement you can make for yourself.
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Wrong-o. You edited it. It's too obvious for you to even try to pass it off as a lie.

Oh, and "judgment".
 
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Wow so he just upped and snapped all of a sudden out of the blue all by himself?
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In case you missed it earlier in the thread, I'm not commenting about what crowes did to get himself banned.
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
You, obviously. Now do refrain from spamming.
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spamming?
i see wyldfire do this all the time.
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Wrong-o. You edited it. It's too obvious for you to even try to pass it off as a lie.
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Again, I don't give a damn if you believe it or not.

Crowes wrote what he wrote.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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