Wrong. If your experience is limited, it is wise to ask for help.secretasianman said:this is a bad question to ask, its like asking for the answers to life. you need to just use your own intuition and try whatever you think works.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Wrong. If your experience is limited, it is wise to ask for help.secretasianman said:this is a bad question to ask, its like asking for the answers to life. you need to just use your own intuition and try whatever you think works.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
this i look forward to GGTWgodsgifttowomen said:GodsGiftToWomen has all but been forgotten..
But the leader of the coming renaissance will rise. There will be peace throughout land. ..Except for the land of keyboard jockeys and armchair experts. They criticize when GGTW posts pics and even videos of his pickups!
..But behold, the golden ages are coming soon.
-GGTW
DonJuanabe said:It is stupid to make blanket statements that no one here provides credible advice because everyone is here due to being failures at dating/relationships. Experience is key, and many people here have experience and are thus able to provide perspective and wisdom to those who haven't gone through the minefield that is dating. Moreover, there are plenty of men who don't know this site exists and they are in terrible relationships, or have been in terrible ones, or get used by women, etc. Want advice from them? And then there are plenty of men in real life who you think have their relationship sh*t together (relationsh*t)? but are, internally, very unhappy.
The moral is read, consider, compare, think, experience.
Take it from one-star.gpshields3 said:Bigneil? He's a f**king lunatic. You're better off taking advice from the bum on the corner.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I believe im credible like many others on here, I like to joke around alot but when it comes to serious advice, i give off my ideas based on my personal experiences just like everyone else. Sometimes i like to read posters who are older than me and get some ideas from their more mature life.dangdang said:Trying to get a feel for this place... Lots of conflicting advice. Some viewpoints just don't feel right, period.
That said, which posters have wisdom and experience here?
Thanks
So bigneil just got jealous that I never noticed him. And I quote "I'm the guy with the same rating and half your posts."bigneil said:Take it from one-star.