Wrong. If your experience is limited, it is wise to ask for help.secretasianman said:this is a bad question to ask, its like asking for the answers to life. you need to just use your own intuition and try whatever you think works.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Wrong. If your experience is limited, it is wise to ask for help.secretasianman said:this is a bad question to ask, its like asking for the answers to life. you need to just use your own intuition and try whatever you think works.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
this i look forward to GGTWgodsgifttowomen said:GodsGiftToWomen has all but been forgotten..
But the leader of the coming renaissance will rise. There will be peace throughout land. ..Except for the land of keyboard jockeys and armchair experts. They criticize when GGTW posts pics and even videos of his pickups!
..But behold, the golden ages are coming soon.
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DonJuanabe said:It is stupid to make blanket statements that no one here provides credible advice because everyone is here due to being failures at dating/relationships. Experience is key, and many people here have experience and are thus able to provide perspective and wisdom to those who haven't gone through the minefield that is dating. Moreover, there are plenty of men who don't know this site exists and they are in terrible relationships, or have been in terrible ones, or get used by women, etc. Want advice from them? And then there are plenty of men in real life who you think have their relationship sh*t together (relationsh*t)? but are, internally, very unhappy.
The moral is read, consider, compare, think, experience.
Take it from one-star.gpshields3 said:Bigneil? He's a f**king lunatic. You're better off taking advice from the bum on the corner.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I believe im credible like many others on here, I like to joke around alot but when it comes to serious advice, i give off my ideas based on my personal experiences just like everyone else. Sometimes i like to read posters who are older than me and get some ideas from their more mature life.dangdang said:Trying to get a feel for this place... Lots of conflicting advice. Some viewpoints just don't feel right, period.
That said, which posters have wisdom and experience here?
Thanks
So bigneil just got jealous that I never noticed him. And I quote "I'm the guy with the same rating and half your posts."bigneil said:Take it from one-star.