"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Which posters are credible here???

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secretasianman said:
this is a bad question to ask, its like asking for the answers to life. you need to just use your own intuition and try whatever you think works.
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Wrong. If your experience is limited, it is wise to ask for help.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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godsgifttowomen said:
GodsGiftToWomen has all but been forgotten..

But the leader of the coming renaissance will rise. There will be peace throughout land. ..Except for the land of keyboard jockeys and armchair experts. They criticize when GGTW posts pics and even videos of his pickups!

..But behold, the golden ages are coming soon.

-GGTW
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this i look forward to GGTW
 
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It is stupid to make blanket statements that no one here provides credible advice because everyone is here due to being failures at dating/relationships. Experience is key, and many people here have experience and are thus able to provide perspective and wisdom to those who haven't gone through the minefield that is dating. Moreover, there are plenty of men who don't know this site exists and they are in terrible relationships, or have been in terrible ones, or get used by women, etc. Want advice from them? And then there are plenty of men in real life who you think have their relationship sh*t together (relationsh*t)? but are, internally, very unhappy.

The moral is read, consider, compare, think, experience.
 
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DonJuanabe said:
It is stupid to make blanket statements that no one here provides credible advice because everyone is here due to being failures at dating/relationships. Experience is key, and many people here have experience and are thus able to provide perspective and wisdom to those who haven't gone through the minefield that is dating. Moreover, there are plenty of men who don't know this site exists and they are in terrible relationships, or have been in terrible ones, or get used by women, etc. Want advice from them? And then there are plenty of men in real life who you think have their relationship sh*t together (relationsh*t)? but are, internally, very unhappy.

The moral is read, consider, compare, think, experience.
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:eek:

This is an example of a bad post.
 
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gpshields3 said:
Bigneil? He's a f**king lunatic. You're better off taking advice from the bum on the corner.
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Take it from one-star.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I will tell anyone I'm the least credible on the site as I don't like answering ridiculous questions let alone getting too deep into this nonsense.
 
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It's fine to ask for help but you can't say "these guys are the credible posters" or "I'm only gonna listen to these guy's advice over the rest"
 
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dangdang said:
Trying to get a feel for this place... Lots of conflicting advice. Some viewpoints just don't feel right, period.

That said, which posters have wisdom and experience here?

Thanks
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I believe im credible like many others on here, I like to joke around alot but when it comes to serious advice, i give off my ideas based on my personal experiences just like everyone else. Sometimes i like to read posters who are older than me and get some ideas from their more mature life.
 
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bigneil said:
Take it from one-star.
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So bigneil just got jealous that I never noticed him. And I quote "I'm the guy with the same rating and half your posts."

Thanks bro.
 
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