"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Which One???

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I've lifted on and off for years now. I'm a hardgainer. Always wanting to gain weight, muscle not fat, up to 205 like Pook in his post addressing being skinny. Only now am I really willing to put the effort and time in. I know. Should have wised up before this, but as they say. Better late, then never. The diet is settled and all good. The only problem I have facing me now is what workout to follow.

Should I follow the one from SkinnyGuy.net as Pook did. Or should I follow a more traditional workout of multiple sets of heavy weight (reps between 6-8) using compound exercises??????

I'm asking anyone who has had experience with this program to please add in. I'm seriously debating the two because I don't want to feel later that my time was wasted and I should have gone with the other one.

Thanks.

P.S.-More traditional workout looks like this:
Monday - Back
Tuesday - Chest
Thursday - Legs
Friday - Shoulders, Triceps, Biceps
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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