"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Which of these is gayer?

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Situation number 1:
Male doctor checks your prostate

Situation 2:
You train your gf to check your prostate and include that process into sex
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Both. I remember my dad was going to have his 1st prostate exam and he was like "I hope it doesnt hurt. I hope I dont end up liking it but if I do, im switching teams and hope to pull a lot of men".
 
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I'm not gay but I want to live in a log cabin in the woods with a male urologist. We won't ever have sex, but there will be a simmering erotic undercurrent as I am propped over the kitchen table watching him tighten his ass as he checks my prostate, shirtless, sweat pouring off his body. I'll run upstairs and masturbate, the entire time forcing myself to think of women while my thoughts drift back to the urologist. I won't be able to climax and I'll eventually go back downstairs, angry. Sometimes we will look across the table and catch each other's eyes, and in that second, anything is possible, but we both deny ourselves and go back to what we were doing. One day one of us will die, and the other will bury him outside the log cabin. Then he'll go inside, pen a brief missive to his departed friend, and commit suicide, never able to deal with life without his one true platonic love.

Situation 2:
You train your gf to check your prostate and include that process into sex
I don't think it's gay at all if she proceeds to wear a strap-on.
 

Gamisch

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Situation number 1:
Male doctor checks your prostate

Situation 2:
You train your gf to check your prostate and include that process into sex
Say whut?
1 is just a bloke doing his daily job..nothing to see here.

2 cannot be undone. Remember that. We had a really long thread discussing if eating a woman out = losing frame. Well, this action doesnt need multiple pages to determine that conclusion...take this to the thread about prostitution . For both a prostitute and a doctor it will be daily work.

I knew a girl who was hooker , she told me she had several clients who wanted her to kick them in their rectrum with high heels untill they bleed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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threeforfree

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Nothing is actually gay if it's between a man and a woman.

Gay men kiss a lot and get BJs, right? Are you going to stop getting BJs because gay men do it?

If you and your woman enjoy it, get your freak on and don't worry about it.

Worrying about how gay you are is the gayest of any of it because you're introducing that thought exercise into the situation.
 
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