"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Which of these is gayer?

adanricci

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Situation number 1:
Male doctor checks your prostate

Situation 2:
You train your gf to check your prostate and include that process into sex
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Both. I remember my dad was going to have his 1st prostate exam and he was like "I hope it doesnt hurt. I hope I dont end up liking it but if I do, im switching teams and hope to pull a lot of men".
 
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I'm not gay but I want to live in a log cabin in the woods with a male urologist. We won't ever have sex, but there will be a simmering erotic undercurrent as I am propped over the kitchen table watching him tighten his ass as he checks my prostate, shirtless, sweat pouring off his body. I'll run upstairs and masturbate, the entire time forcing myself to think of women while my thoughts drift back to the urologist. I won't be able to climax and I'll eventually go back downstairs, angry. Sometimes we will look across the table and catch each other's eyes, and in that second, anything is possible, but we both deny ourselves and go back to what we were doing. One day one of us will die, and the other will bury him outside the log cabin. Then he'll go inside, pen a brief missive to his departed friend, and commit suicide, never able to deal with life without his one true platonic love.

Situation 2:
You train your gf to check your prostate and include that process into sex
I don't think it's gay at all if she proceeds to wear a strap-on.
 

Gamisch

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Situation number 1:
Male doctor checks your prostate

Situation 2:
You train your gf to check your prostate and include that process into sex
Say whut?
1 is just a bloke doing his daily job..nothing to see here.

2 cannot be undone. Remember that. We had a really long thread discussing if eating a woman out = losing frame. Well, this action doesnt need multiple pages to determine that conclusion...take this to the thread about prostitution . For both a prostitute and a doctor it will be daily work.

I knew a girl who was hooker , she told me she had several clients who wanted her to kick them in their rectrum with high heels untill they bleed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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threeforfree

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Nothing is actually gay if it's between a man and a woman.

Gay men kiss a lot and get BJs, right? Are you going to stop getting BJs because gay men do it?

If you and your woman enjoy it, get your freak on and don't worry about it.

Worrying about how gay you are is the gayest of any of it because you're introducing that thought exercise into the situation.
 
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