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Don Juan
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I'd prefer Kate Hudson, but OK, I'll take Kendra then.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LOL & I agree! only cuz she got straight black hair which is verryy sexy.EA Gold said:The least ugly of the 3 is the one on the left..lol
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
while i am usually posting the same thing (hey i think hananah storm is ****ing hot) these women really are not that hot. I like petite leggy women and the one on the left is that but she has somewhat of a masculine faceDrum&Bass said:I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
Man Claudia's on the right, and she looks like fun.Capodeciña said:Claudia (left) for the win.
Thank you. I just checked this out and I would say they are all bangable. If I had to pick 1, I'd take a Alena... She has the coveted model figureDrum&Bass said:I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Julian said:Id hit all 3 of them if you wouldnt you are either 1, ballin out of control an getting dimes, or 2, on that phaggy time cuz.
But if I had to choose id hit 3. And the middle one aint bad...ive smashed worse...hella worse (no proud).
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She isn't a "Latina". How stupid can one be? Plus, Latina isn't a look. You have a thing for people who speak Latin languages? Okay. Whatever.TyTe`EyEz said:Couldn't have said it better myself. All three of 'em could get it. I have a thing for latinas, so the b1tch on the right would get it first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.