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Don Juan
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I'd prefer Kate Hudson, but OK, I'll take Kendra then.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LOL & I agree! only cuz she got straight black hair which is verryy sexy.EA Gold said:The least ugly of the 3 is the one on the left..lol
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
while i am usually posting the same thing (hey i think hananah storm is ****ing hot) these women really are not that hot. I like petite leggy women and the one on the left is that but she has somewhat of a masculine faceDrum&Bass said:I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
Man Claudia's on the right, and she looks like fun.Capodeciña said:Claudia (left) for the win.
Thank you. I just checked this out and I would say they are all bangable. If I had to pick 1, I'd take a Alena... She has the coveted model figureDrum&Bass said:I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Julian said:Id hit all 3 of them if you wouldnt you are either 1, ballin out of control an getting dimes, or 2, on that phaggy time cuz.
But if I had to choose id hit 3. And the middle one aint bad...ive smashed worse...hella worse (no proud).
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She isn't a "Latina". How stupid can one be? Plus, Latina isn't a look. You have a thing for people who speak Latin languages? Okay. Whatever.TyTe`EyEz said:Couldn't have said it better myself. All three of 'em could get it. I have a thing for latinas, so the b1tch on the right would get it first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.