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Don Juan
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- May 18, 2008
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I'd prefer Kate Hudson, but OK, I'll take Kendra then.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LOL & I agree! only cuz she got straight black hair which is verryy sexy.EA Gold said:The least ugly of the 3 is the one on the left..lol
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
while i am usually posting the same thing (hey i think hananah storm is ****ing hot) these women really are not that hot. I like petite leggy women and the one on the left is that but she has somewhat of a masculine faceDrum&Bass said:I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
Man Claudia's on the right, and she looks like fun.Capodeciña said:Claudia (left) for the win.
Thank you. I just checked this out and I would say they are all bangable. If I had to pick 1, I'd take a Alena... She has the coveted model figureDrum&Bass said:I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Julian said:Id hit all 3 of them if you wouldnt you are either 1, ballin out of control an getting dimes, or 2, on that phaggy time cuz.
But if I had to choose id hit 3. And the middle one aint bad...ive smashed worse...hella worse (no proud).
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She isn't a "Latina". How stupid can one be? Plus, Latina isn't a look. You have a thing for people who speak Latin languages? Okay. Whatever.TyTe`EyEz said:Couldn't have said it better myself. All three of 'em could get it. I have a thing for latinas, so the b1tch on the right would get it first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.