gösta berling
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 18, 2008
- Messages
- 72
- Reaction score
- 4
I'd prefer Kate Hudson, but OK, I'll take Kendra then.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LOL & I agree! only cuz she got straight black hair which is verryy sexy.EA Gold said:The least ugly of the 3 is the one on the left..lol
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
while i am usually posting the same thing (hey i think hananah storm is ****ing hot) these women really are not that hot. I like petite leggy women and the one on the left is that but she has somewhat of a masculine faceDrum&Bass said:I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
Man Claudia's on the right, and she looks like fun.Capodeciña said:Claudia (left) for the win.
Thank you. I just checked this out and I would say they are all bangable. If I had to pick 1, I'd take a Alena... She has the coveted model figureDrum&Bass said:I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Julian said:Id hit all 3 of them if you wouldnt you are either 1, ballin out of control an getting dimes, or 2, on that phaggy time cuz.
But if I had to choose id hit 3. And the middle one aint bad...ive smashed worse...hella worse (no proud).
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She isn't a "Latina". How stupid can one be? Plus, Latina isn't a look. You have a thing for people who speak Latin languages? Okay. Whatever.TyTe`EyEz said:Couldn't have said it better myself. All three of 'em could get it. I have a thing for latinas, so the b1tch on the right would get it first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.