"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Which of these 3 girls is the hottest?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The least ugly of the 3 is the one on the left..lol
LOL & I agree! only cuz she got straight black hair which is verryy sexy.

But they just average girls. I was dissappointed when the link opened :down:
 

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none of them are hot.. if you put a gun to my head the one of the left could blow me ifs he would catch afterwards.
 

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I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
 

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Alena.

The other 2 are fat.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Drum&Bass said:
I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
while i am usually posting the same thing (hey i think hananah storm is ****ing hot) these women really are not that hot. I like petite leggy women and the one on the left is that but she has somewhat of a masculine face
 

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Capodeciña said:
Claudia (left) for the win.
Man Claudia's on the right, and she looks like fun.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
I'd love to see some examples of what the haters think is attractive and what some of you haters actually get in real life.
Thank you. I just checked this out and I would say they are all bangable. If I had to pick 1, I'd take a Alena... She has the coveted model figure
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think they all are about equal. None of them are 9's but maybe 8's at best. The girl on the left, Alena, is a tad skinny, the girl in the middle, Kendra is fat, the girl on the right Claudia is closest to being curvey without being too fat. But I noticed she has a tatoo above her cooch and that is a turn-off for me. The girl on the left or right, could go either way.
 

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Id hit all 3 of them if you wouldnt you are either 1, ballin out of control an getting dimes, or 2, on that phaggy time cuz.

But if I had to choose id hit 3. And the middle one aint bad...ive smashed worse...hella worse (no proud).
 
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Id hit all 3 of them if you wouldnt you are either 1, ballin out of control an getting dimes, or 2, on that phaggy time cuz.

But if I had to choose id hit 3. And the middle one aint bad...ive smashed worse...hella worse (no proud).

Couldn't have said it better myself. All three of 'em could get it. I have a thing for latinas, so the b1tch on the right would get it first.
 

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The one on the left is the best

But again, that's not saying much
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just so you know, it's just as irritating when people tell me what I will and will not ****, as it is when guys who have impossible standards.

I do post pics, I've posted plenty pics in my time here.

First of all if you want to get technical "would you ****" is a complex subject. First of all it depends on my situtation. If i were single and aleady screwing women who are in my league, no, none of them. maybe the one on the left.

If i'm single and hard up for ass the one on the ends could get it.

I refuse to date a girl who has bigger hips than I do so the one in the middle is a no go regardless.

While I've fvked "much worse"... ol, actually i haven't now that I think about it, but I get where you are coming from..okay i take that back i have lol, just really thought about it.... what I have ****ed and what i currently **** are two totally different subjects. Just beucase i ****ed a hag when i was 20 once, doesn't mean i will automatically **** a whale with a cute face now. your life circumstances dictate what is and is not accecptable. i am at a point where really none of them are accecptable, if i were spinning plates i could see myself giving the one on the left a chance to knock mee off my feet with a great personality or something but physically i've had and have better.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Couldn't have said it better myself. All three of 'em could get it. I have a thing for latinas, so the b1tch on the right would get it first.
She isn't a "Latina". How stupid can one be? Plus, Latina isn't a look. You have a thing for people who speak Latin languages? Okay. Whatever.

http://ilmiocambalache.files.wordpress.com/2009/08/oktoberfest_argentina_villa_general_belgrano1.jpg
Latinas from Argentina! Argentina is a white country. I am sure they wouldn't be old enough to drink in freedom loving America.

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Brazilian style. Brazil has more blondes than Canada. Also has the world's largest Oktoberfest outside of Munich and the worlds densest German, Polish, Dutch, and Ukrainian populations outside of those respective countries. I won't even get into how Sao Paulo has more Italians than Milan and Rome combined. Italians call it the "Second City". If you want to get crazy we can discuss the 1.5 million Japanese in Sao Paulo. That is more Japanese than America, Canada, and Western Europe have combined. But dumb Americans think of South America in the same terms as Mexico! Sad, really sad. We even have idiots on here who claim that Brazilians are all mixed! Watching too much soccer I guess. I watch basketball and listen to American music and all of America is black and mixed as well. Hell, even the President of America is mixed.

Americans scare me. Argentina, Brazil, and Uruguay are immigrant countries. They are NOT Mexico. Latina is not a look. It is not a culture. It means people who speak a Latin language. Romanians are Latins. Hispanic is also not a look. Nobody can look Latino or Hispanic. Just like nobody can look "Arabic". Arabic is not a look.

Back away from your tv's. Please. You are scaring me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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