"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Which Housing Situation is better for a DJ?

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If I was to bring a girl home, do you think a girl would be uncomfortable with situation A:, and thereby affect my chances with her.



A)
Have a roommate, live in an expensive luxury apt( Trump Towers) , but you still have your own room in a 2 BR

or

B)
Have your own private 1 Br apartment, but its not in an expensive Luxury apartment, but an ordinary apartment complex.





Which one is better for a DJ ? An expensive place, or your own place...Its that time finding an apartment..



Thanks !!
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A cave because all real DJ's are alpha cave men.
 

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Whatever you think you'd like more. With a roommate, you always have a friend to go out with or just chill at home with, and you get to split the rent. Alone, you can bring a girl over without worrying about if your roommate is home, and its always nice to have your own space.

Both can be great, just pick the one you like more.
 

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Well, thats what I was asking, If I was going to bring a girl home in situation A with a roommate, do you think it will impact negatively...even though we both have a lot of space in the apartment ... when I said "DJ", I meant the whole bringing a girl to your place....
 

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Whichever makes you happiest........ forget throwing away your happiness for a girl. I'd go with A.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think having an expensive place is best and your own place like that. Try to get a nice penthouse condo overlooking a lake so you can see the beautiful sunset and sunrise. Make sure you have the best expensive materials, marble floors, cherry hardwood floors, oak cabinets, granite kitchens -- I'm a Real-Estate agent, and I've seen some of the best, of the best condos on the market.

There was this one condo I saw that was asking like a million dollars, and it was over the Skydome, and it had all these features, and it was beautiful. If you ever come around TO, I can show you some good condos if you want to buy.
 
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