"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Which Housing Situation is better for a DJ?

donArjun

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If I was to bring a girl home, do you think a girl would be uncomfortable with situation A:, and thereby affect my chances with her.



A)
Have a roommate, live in an expensive luxury apt( Trump Towers) , but you still have your own room in a 2 BR

or

B)
Have your own private 1 Br apartment, but its not in an expensive Luxury apartment, but an ordinary apartment complex.





Which one is better for a DJ ? An expensive place, or your own place...Its that time finding an apartment..



Thanks !!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SELF-MASTERY

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A cave because all real DJ's are alpha cave men.
 

Ace of Flames

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Whatever you think you'd like more. With a roommate, you always have a friend to go out with or just chill at home with, and you get to split the rent. Alone, you can bring a girl over without worrying about if your roommate is home, and its always nice to have your own space.

Both can be great, just pick the one you like more.
 

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Well, thats what I was asking, If I was going to bring a girl home in situation A with a roommate, do you think it will impact negatively...even though we both have a lot of space in the apartment ... when I said "DJ", I meant the whole bringing a girl to your place....
 

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Whichever makes you happiest........ forget throwing away your happiness for a girl. I'd go with A.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think having an expensive place is best and your own place like that. Try to get a nice penthouse condo overlooking a lake so you can see the beautiful sunset and sunrise. Make sure you have the best expensive materials, marble floors, cherry hardwood floors, oak cabinets, granite kitchens -- I'm a Real-Estate agent, and I've seen some of the best, of the best condos on the market.

There was this one condo I saw that was asking like a million dollars, and it was over the Skydome, and it had all these features, and it was beautiful. If you ever come around TO, I can show you some good condos if you want to buy.
 
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