"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Which Housing Situation is better for a DJ?

donArjun

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If I was to bring a girl home, do you think a girl would be uncomfortable with situation A:, and thereby affect my chances with her.



A)
Have a roommate, live in an expensive luxury apt( Trump Towers) , but you still have your own room in a 2 BR

or

B)
Have your own private 1 Br apartment, but its not in an expensive Luxury apartment, but an ordinary apartment complex.





Which one is better for a DJ ? An expensive place, or your own place...Its that time finding an apartment..



Thanks !!
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A cave because all real DJ's are alpha cave men.
 

Ace of Flames

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Whatever you think you'd like more. With a roommate, you always have a friend to go out with or just chill at home with, and you get to split the rent. Alone, you can bring a girl over without worrying about if your roommate is home, and its always nice to have your own space.

Both can be great, just pick the one you like more.
 

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Well, thats what I was asking, If I was going to bring a girl home in situation A with a roommate, do you think it will impact negatively...even though we both have a lot of space in the apartment ... when I said "DJ", I meant the whole bringing a girl to your place....
 

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Whichever makes you happiest........ forget throwing away your happiness for a girl. I'd go with A.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think having an expensive place is best and your own place like that. Try to get a nice penthouse condo overlooking a lake so you can see the beautiful sunset and sunrise. Make sure you have the best expensive materials, marble floors, cherry hardwood floors, oak cabinets, granite kitchens -- I'm a Real-Estate agent, and I've seen some of the best, of the best condos on the market.

There was this one condo I saw that was asking like a million dollars, and it was over the Skydome, and it had all these features, and it was beautiful. If you ever come around TO, I can show you some good condos if you want to buy.
 
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