"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Which has a longer attention span, a woman or a fish?

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which has a longer interest span?

I've noticed the difference between men and women generally speaking is that a woman's interest level can change very rapidly. What you did with her 3 weeks ago can go out the window. What you did with her 3 months ago is basically non-existent to her. Girls only care about very very recent emotions that you were able to elicit in her.

An analogy is a child. Do you remember when you were a little kid and sometimes your parents would say something like "Do you remember uncle Larry?" And you would sort of look at him with vague familiarity but you didn't really remember. That's how girls are in terms of their interest level. They will probably remember you, but they don't really remember the emotions they had with you. So you have to see her regularly (but too much to seem clingy) to reinforce who you are.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not always true. I'm dating a second girl that would give up everything for me. The problem is my interest levels changing. I also find it hard to keep women from bringing up **** from the past. Also, of course you have regularly interact with her.

What do you want, a drive through for *******s?

Pretty pointless post.
 

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Funnily enough, most WOMEN complain I have a short attention span. Which is true
 
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