"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Which has a longer attention span, a woman or a fish?

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which has a longer interest span?

I've noticed the difference between men and women generally speaking is that a woman's interest level can change very rapidly. What you did with her 3 weeks ago can go out the window. What you did with her 3 months ago is basically non-existent to her. Girls only care about very very recent emotions that you were able to elicit in her.

An analogy is a child. Do you remember when you were a little kid and sometimes your parents would say something like "Do you remember uncle Larry?" And you would sort of look at him with vague familiarity but you didn't really remember. That's how girls are in terms of their interest level. They will probably remember you, but they don't really remember the emotions they had with you. So you have to see her regularly (but too much to seem clingy) to reinforce who you are.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not always true. I'm dating a second girl that would give up everything for me. The problem is my interest levels changing. I also find it hard to keep women from bringing up **** from the past. Also, of course you have regularly interact with her.

What do you want, a drive through for *******s?

Pretty pointless post.
 

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Funnily enough, most WOMEN complain I have a short attention span. Which is true
 
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