which has a longer interest span?
I've noticed the difference between men and women generally speaking is that a woman's interest level can change very rapidly. What you did with her 3 weeks ago can go out the window. What you did with her 3 months ago is basically non-existent to her. Girls only care about very very recent emotions that you were able to elicit in her.
An analogy is a child. Do you remember when you were a little kid and sometimes your parents would say something like "Do you remember uncle Larry?" And you would sort of look at him with vague familiarity but you didn't really remember. That's how girls are in terms of their interest level. They will probably remember you, but they don't really remember the emotions they had with you. So you have to see her regularly (but too much to seem clingy) to reinforce who you are.
I've noticed the difference between men and women generally speaking is that a woman's interest level can change very rapidly. What you did with her 3 weeks ago can go out the window. What you did with her 3 months ago is basically non-existent to her. Girls only care about very very recent emotions that you were able to elicit in her.
An analogy is a child. Do you remember when you were a little kid and sometimes your parents would say something like "Do you remember uncle Larry?" And you would sort of look at him with vague familiarity but you didn't really remember. That's how girls are in terms of their interest level. They will probably remember you, but they don't really remember the emotions they had with you. So you have to see her regularly (but too much to seem clingy) to reinforce who you are.
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