"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Which has a longer attention span, a woman or a fish?

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which has a longer interest span?

I've noticed the difference between men and women generally speaking is that a woman's interest level can change very rapidly. What you did with her 3 weeks ago can go out the window. What you did with her 3 months ago is basically non-existent to her. Girls only care about very very recent emotions that you were able to elicit in her.

An analogy is a child. Do you remember when you were a little kid and sometimes your parents would say something like "Do you remember uncle Larry?" And you would sort of look at him with vague familiarity but you didn't really remember. That's how girls are in terms of their interest level. They will probably remember you, but they don't really remember the emotions they had with you. So you have to see her regularly (but too much to seem clingy) to reinforce who you are.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not always true. I'm dating a second girl that would give up everything for me. The problem is my interest levels changing. I also find it hard to keep women from bringing up **** from the past. Also, of course you have regularly interact with her.

What do you want, a drive through for *******s?

Pretty pointless post.
 

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Funnily enough, most WOMEN complain I have a short attention span. Which is true
 
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