"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Which has a longer attention span, a woman or a fish?

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which has a longer interest span?

I've noticed the difference between men and women generally speaking is that a woman's interest level can change very rapidly. What you did with her 3 weeks ago can go out the window. What you did with her 3 months ago is basically non-existent to her. Girls only care about very very recent emotions that you were able to elicit in her.

An analogy is a child. Do you remember when you were a little kid and sometimes your parents would say something like "Do you remember uncle Larry?" And you would sort of look at him with vague familiarity but you didn't really remember. That's how girls are in terms of their interest level. They will probably remember you, but they don't really remember the emotions they had with you. So you have to see her regularly (but too much to seem clingy) to reinforce who you are.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not always true. I'm dating a second girl that would give up everything for me. The problem is my interest levels changing. I also find it hard to keep women from bringing up **** from the past. Also, of course you have regularly interact with her.

What do you want, a drive through for *******s?

Pretty pointless post.
 

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Funnily enough, most WOMEN complain I have a short attention span. Which is true
 
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