eijikenhiyashi
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a girl who is okay looking and has high self-esteem and makes her own decisions. or a girl who is hot but wants me to help her make decisions all the time.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Which do you prefer?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gangster Of Love
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Prefer for what? To bang or to date in a LTR?
eijikenhiyashi
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To date obviously.
The 2nd one. A real man is supposed to take charge in a relationship. The first chick would turn out to be too uppity and bossy. Hot chicks can sometimes get away with this, but the chick you described are the ones who usually sit at home Friday nights with a box of cookies and a Harlequin romance novel.
PRMoon
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It depends on what you're looking for. The first one works when you have a girl who has a decent job and has goals. In that case she's more of a partner then a subordinate. I prefer that case because it's a two way street. If I in turn am having problems with something, it's nice to know I can go to a thinking partner who can look over the issue with a fresh pair of eyes and give credible advice.
The latter takes more effort on your part because people who ask what to do all the time are more or less drones. A drone is good to order around and are generally only good at performing whatever task are lain out for them but without a guide are lost. I'm not too big of a fan of this because I encourage people to think. It's tricky enough making decisions in my complex life so the last thing I need is to make decisions for two people with no help. Some people can manage this though and prefer it that way.
The latter takes more effort on your part because people who ask what to do all the time are more or less drones. A drone is good to order around and are generally only good at performing whatever task are lain out for them but without a guide are lost. I'm not too big of a fan of this because I encourage people to think. It's tricky enough making decisions in my complex life so the last thing I need is to make decisions for two people with no help. Some people can manage this though and prefer it that way.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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eijikenhiyashi said:
I will not go lower than a 6 in looks and a 7 in intelligence.
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I take it you don't live in the U.S.?DonGorgon said:
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The first girl because she has ambitions, independent and won't depend on you for finacial relief.
The other girl needs to go home and let mommy and daddy finish raising her until she becomes woman enough to make her own decisions.
The other girl needs to go home and let mommy and daddy finish raising her until she becomes woman enough to make her own decisions.
Gangster Of Love
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Believe me, this might sound good on paper (computer screen), it gets very old and annoyin', very very fast.Birdem said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I have been in the US for 10 years... after 10 in the UK and 10 in the caribbean...MooseGod said: