eijikenhiyashi
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a girl who is okay looking and has high self-esteem and makes her own decisions. or a girl who is hot but wants me to help her make decisions all the time.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Which do you prefer?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Gangster Of Love
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Prefer for what? To bang or to date in a LTR?
eijikenhiyashi
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To date obviously.
The 2nd one. A real man is supposed to take charge in a relationship. The first chick would turn out to be too uppity and bossy. Hot chicks can sometimes get away with this, but the chick you described are the ones who usually sit at home Friday nights with a box of cookies and a Harlequin romance novel.
PRMoon
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It depends on what you're looking for. The first one works when you have a girl who has a decent job and has goals. In that case she's more of a partner then a subordinate. I prefer that case because it's a two way street. If I in turn am having problems with something, it's nice to know I can go to a thinking partner who can look over the issue with a fresh pair of eyes and give credible advice.
The latter takes more effort on your part because people who ask what to do all the time are more or less drones. A drone is good to order around and are generally only good at performing whatever task are lain out for them but without a guide are lost. I'm not too big of a fan of this because I encourage people to think. It's tricky enough making decisions in my complex life so the last thing I need is to make decisions for two people with no help. Some people can manage this though and prefer it that way.
The latter takes more effort on your part because people who ask what to do all the time are more or less drones. A drone is good to order around and are generally only good at performing whatever task are lain out for them but without a guide are lost. I'm not too big of a fan of this because I encourage people to think. It's tricky enough making decisions in my complex life so the last thing I need is to make decisions for two people with no help. Some people can manage this though and prefer it that way.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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eijikenhiyashi said:
I will not go lower than a 6 in looks and a 7 in intelligence.
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I take it you don't live in the U.S.?DonGorgon said:
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The first girl because she has ambitions, independent and won't depend on you for finacial relief.
The other girl needs to go home and let mommy and daddy finish raising her until she becomes woman enough to make her own decisions.
The other girl needs to go home and let mommy and daddy finish raising her until she becomes woman enough to make her own decisions.
Gangster Of Love
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Believe me, this might sound good on paper (computer screen), it gets very old and annoyin', very very fast.Birdem said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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I have been in the US for 10 years... after 10 in the UK and 10 in the caribbean...MooseGod said: