"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
where to work
- Thread starter claude
- Start date
Thanks in advance. "She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
If you want to meet a lot of fun, single, hot women get a job at a cool restaurant. I work downtown in the city in which I reside and I have met a lot of really fun, good-looking women. They might not be the relationship type, but moreso the booty-call type.
I work at a pretty large establishment, so there are about 30 female employees, and I kid you not, I have a chance with almost all of them!(barring the one's with boyfriends..) Of course, you need to be careful if your hooking up with people at work, but I've found that they are pretty cool about it.
Even if you don't hook up with the women you work with, your oppurtunity to expand your social circle is awesome.I've met at least 100 or more new people in the last couple of months, and have had success with several women who were friends of coworkers! So, I leave it up to you...
Magnatolia
Don Juan
Try mystery shopping. It seems to be a pretty secretive business (I hear about them but don't see much in the way of jobs).
You get paid to shop, get free goodies and you get to go to plenty of different shops. Bound to find a lot of women.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
" It comes down to this. Live your dreams, or live other peoples dreams "