"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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- Thread starter claude
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Thanks in advance. "She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
If you want to meet a lot of fun, single, hot women get a job at a cool restaurant. I work downtown in the city in which I reside and I have met a lot of really fun, good-looking women. They might not be the relationship type, but moreso the booty-call type.
I work at a pretty large establishment, so there are about 30 female employees, and I kid you not, I have a chance with almost all of them!(barring the one's with boyfriends..) Of course, you need to be careful if your hooking up with people at work, but I've found that they are pretty cool about it.
Even if you don't hook up with the women you work with, your oppurtunity to expand your social circle is awesome.I've met at least 100 or more new people in the last couple of months, and have had success with several women who were friends of coworkers! So, I leave it up to you...
Magnatolia
Don Juan
Try mystery shopping. It seems to be a pretty secretive business (I hear about them but don't see much in the way of jobs).
You get paid to shop, get free goodies and you get to go to plenty of different shops. Bound to find a lot of women.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
" It comes down to this. Live your dreams, or live other peoples dreams "