"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Thanks in advance. "You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
If you want to meet a lot of fun, single, hot women get a job at a cool restaurant. I work downtown in the city in which I reside and I have met a lot of really fun, good-looking women. They might not be the relationship type, but moreso the booty-call type.
I work at a pretty large establishment, so there are about 30 female employees, and I kid you not, I have a chance with almost all of them!(barring the one's with boyfriends..) Of course, you need to be careful if your hooking up with people at work, but I've found that they are pretty cool about it.
Even if you don't hook up with the women you work with, your oppurtunity to expand your social circle is awesome.I've met at least 100 or more new people in the last couple of months, and have had success with several women who were friends of coworkers! So, I leave it up to you...
Magnatolia
Don Juan
Try mystery shopping. It seems to be a pretty secretive business (I hear about them but don't see much in the way of jobs).
You get paid to shop, get free goodies and you get to go to plenty of different shops. Bound to find a lot of women.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
" It comes down to this. Live your dreams, or live other peoples dreams "