"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
where to work
- Thread starter claude
- Start date
Thanks in advance. "She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
If you want to meet a lot of fun, single, hot women get a job at a cool restaurant. I work downtown in the city in which I reside and I have met a lot of really fun, good-looking women. They might not be the relationship type, but moreso the booty-call type.
I work at a pretty large establishment, so there are about 30 female employees, and I kid you not, I have a chance with almost all of them!(barring the one's with boyfriends..) Of course, you need to be careful if your hooking up with people at work, but I've found that they are pretty cool about it.
Even if you don't hook up with the women you work with, your oppurtunity to expand your social circle is awesome.I've met at least 100 or more new people in the last couple of months, and have had success with several women who were friends of coworkers! So, I leave it up to you...
Magnatolia
Don Juan
Try mystery shopping. It seems to be a pretty secretive business (I hear about them but don't see much in the way of jobs).
You get paid to shop, get free goodies and you get to go to plenty of different shops. Bound to find a lot of women.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
" It comes down to this. Live your dreams, or live other peoples dreams "