"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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- Thread starter claude
- Start date
Thanks in advance. "Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
If you want to meet a lot of fun, single, hot women get a job at a cool restaurant. I work downtown in the city in which I reside and I have met a lot of really fun, good-looking women. They might not be the relationship type, but moreso the booty-call type.
I work at a pretty large establishment, so there are about 30 female employees, and I kid you not, I have a chance with almost all of them!(barring the one's with boyfriends..) Of course, you need to be careful if your hooking up with people at work, but I've found that they are pretty cool about it.
Even if you don't hook up with the women you work with, your oppurtunity to expand your social circle is awesome.I've met at least 100 or more new people in the last couple of months, and have had success with several women who were friends of coworkers! So, I leave it up to you...
Magnatolia
Don Juan
Try mystery shopping. It seems to be a pretty secretive business (I hear about them but don't see much in the way of jobs).
You get paid to shop, get free goodies and you get to go to plenty of different shops. Bound to find a lot of women.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
" It comes down to this. Live your dreams, or live other peoples dreams "