Ok I'm 25 and typically try to date girls 18-21. The thing is I only have a few friends and they are more of the nerdy type that doesn't go out. I know girls this age usually like to go to house parties or frat parties. Well I don't know anybody like that since I'm 25. I can't necessarily bring them back to my place because my parents live with me. So where do I take these girls? I feel like they will think it's lame to go on a traditional one on one date. What do you guys do?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Where to take 18-23 year old girls?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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The bedroom.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Well whether they think it's lame or not, you don't seem to have a choice.
Meet them at a non-college bar for a drink.
Go to the beach.
Park.
Shoot some pool.
Etc
Meet them at a non-college bar for a drink.
Go to the beach.
Park.
Shoot some pool.
Etc
rent a hotel room...adamw5963 said:I wish the bedroom
Good ideas..I always just have a hard time believing why they would want to go on a date with me when they could go to a party with a bunch of guys. I've been told to find girls that are more mature and don't like parties but I hate to limit myself to a certain type of girl.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Don't due Friday or Saturday night. Sunday - Thursdayadamw5963 said:Good ideas..I always just have a hard time believing why they would want to go on a date with me when they could go to a party with a bunch of guys. I've been told to find girls that are more mature and don't like parties but I hate to limit myself to a certain type of girl.
alphaace
Don Juan
adamw5963 said:Good ideas..I always just have a hard time believing why they would want to go on a date with me when they could go to a party with a bunch of guys. I've been told to find girls that are more mature and don't like parties but I hate to limit myself to a certain type of girl.
You are already limiting yourself by your age range in which you are searching. If you wan't a girl in that age range you are going to be hard-pressed to find an attractive one that isnt into the party scene, but they are out there.
As for where to take them, since you live in a small Alabama town im assuming everyone goes fishing or mudding, their is a start. Try bowling or paint ball. The key is to find something you BOTH like, don't do something just for her and don't make her do someone she doesn't enjoy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.