Ok I'm 25 and typically try to date girls 18-21. The thing is I only have a few friends and they are more of the nerdy type that doesn't go out. I know girls this age usually like to go to house parties or frat parties. Well I don't know anybody like that since I'm 25. I can't necessarily bring them back to my place because my parents live with me. So where do I take these girls? I feel like they will think it's lame to go on a traditional one on one date. What do you guys do?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Where to take 18-23 year old girls?
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The bedroom.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Well whether they think it's lame or not, you don't seem to have a choice.
Meet them at a non-college bar for a drink.
Go to the beach.
Park.
Shoot some pool.
Etc
Meet them at a non-college bar for a drink.
Go to the beach.
Park.
Shoot some pool.
Etc
rent a hotel room...adamw5963 said:I wish the bedroom
Good ideas..I always just have a hard time believing why they would want to go on a date with me when they could go to a party with a bunch of guys. I've been told to find girls that are more mature and don't like parties but I hate to limit myself to a certain type of girl.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Don't due Friday or Saturday night. Sunday - Thursdayadamw5963 said:Good ideas..I always just have a hard time believing why they would want to go on a date with me when they could go to a party with a bunch of guys. I've been told to find girls that are more mature and don't like parties but I hate to limit myself to a certain type of girl.
alphaace
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adamw5963 said:Good ideas..I always just have a hard time believing why they would want to go on a date with me when they could go to a party with a bunch of guys. I've been told to find girls that are more mature and don't like parties but I hate to limit myself to a certain type of girl.
You are already limiting yourself by your age range in which you are searching. If you wan't a girl in that age range you are going to be hard-pressed to find an attractive one that isnt into the party scene, but they are out there.
As for where to take them, since you live in a small Alabama town im assuming everyone goes fishing or mudding, their is a start. Try bowling or paint ball. The key is to find something you BOTH like, don't do something just for her and don't make her do someone she doesn't enjoy.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.