Ok I'm 25 and typically try to date girls 18-21. The thing is I only have a few friends and they are more of the nerdy type that doesn't go out. I know girls this age usually like to go to house parties or frat parties. Well I don't know anybody like that since I'm 25. I can't necessarily bring them back to my place because my parents live with me. So where do I take these girls? I feel like they will think it's lame to go on a traditional one on one date. What do you guys do?
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Where to take 18-23 year old girls?
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Well whether they think it's lame or not, you don't seem to have a choice.
Meet them at a non-college bar for a drink.
Go to the beach.
Park.
Shoot some pool.
Etc
Meet them at a non-college bar for a drink.
Go to the beach.
Park.
Shoot some pool.
Etc
rent a hotel room...adamw5963 said:I wish the bedroom
Good ideas..I always just have a hard time believing why they would want to go on a date with me when they could go to a party with a bunch of guys. I've been told to find girls that are more mature and don't like parties but I hate to limit myself to a certain type of girl.
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Don't due Friday or Saturday night. Sunday - Thursdayadamw5963 said:Good ideas..I always just have a hard time believing why they would want to go on a date with me when they could go to a party with a bunch of guys. I've been told to find girls that are more mature and don't like parties but I hate to limit myself to a certain type of girl.
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adamw5963 said:Good ideas..I always just have a hard time believing why they would want to go on a date with me when they could go to a party with a bunch of guys. I've been told to find girls that are more mature and don't like parties but I hate to limit myself to a certain type of girl.
You are already limiting yourself by your age range in which you are searching. If you wan't a girl in that age range you are going to be hard-pressed to find an attractive one that isnt into the party scene, but they are out there.
As for where to take them, since you live in a small Alabama town im assuming everyone goes fishing or mudding, their is a start. Try bowling or paint ball. The key is to find something you BOTH like, don't do something just for her and don't make her do someone she doesn't enjoy.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.