Fellas, Ive been in the midst of transforming from AFC to DJ and I feel my game has improved quite a bit. Don't get me wrong, I still have room for improvement but I have made alot of progress. However the only problem is where do I meet women to DJ? I dont have time to go to clubs and bars and my schedule M-F is to go to classes, work out, go home. And on weekends, spend time with family. where are some places I can meet women at? Holla back.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Where to meet women
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It depends on what kind of game you want to run.
You can either do cold approaches or you can work social gatherings.
Cold approaches: Malls, walmart, Grocery stores, anyplace.
Social gatherings: Parties, weddings, clubs, bars, exc.
The difference between the two is you're able to run much more complicated and elaborate game in social places where the women will still be there if you back off for a bit.
I've found out that doing cold approaches will get you more phone numbers to work with but girls you build more rapport with are much more likely to agree to go out with you.
You can either do cold approaches or you can work social gatherings.
Cold approaches: Malls, walmart, Grocery stores, anyplace.
Social gatherings: Parties, weddings, clubs, bars, exc.
The difference between the two is you're able to run much more complicated and elaborate game in social places where the women will still be there if you back off for a bit.
I've found out that doing cold approaches will get you more phone numbers to work with but girls you build more rapport with are much more likely to agree to go out with you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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JT47319
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The highest concentration of HOT girls usually go to venues like bars and clubs. Especially if those bars & clubs are hip and happening. You can really hone your ability to cold approach multiple sets of hotties. Of course, those venues can be pretty hostile to the newbies and most girls there have Game. And they'll know if you have IT or not.