Fellas, Ive been in the midst of transforming from AFC to DJ and I feel my game has improved quite a bit. Don't get me wrong, I still have room for improvement but I have made alot of progress. However the only problem is where do I meet women to DJ? I dont have time to go to clubs and bars and my schedule M-F is to go to classes, work out, go home. And on weekends, spend time with family. where are some places I can meet women at? Holla back.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Where to meet women
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It depends on what kind of game you want to run.
You can either do cold approaches or you can work social gatherings.
Cold approaches: Malls, walmart, Grocery stores, anyplace.
Social gatherings: Parties, weddings, clubs, bars, exc.
The difference between the two is you're able to run much more complicated and elaborate game in social places where the women will still be there if you back off for a bit.
I've found out that doing cold approaches will get you more phone numbers to work with but girls you build more rapport with are much more likely to agree to go out with you.
You can either do cold approaches or you can work social gatherings.
Cold approaches: Malls, walmart, Grocery stores, anyplace.
Social gatherings: Parties, weddings, clubs, bars, exc.
The difference between the two is you're able to run much more complicated and elaborate game in social places where the women will still be there if you back off for a bit.
I've found out that doing cold approaches will get you more phone numbers to work with but girls you build more rapport with are much more likely to agree to go out with you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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JT47319
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The highest concentration of HOT girls usually go to venues like bars and clubs. Especially if those bars & clubs are hip and happening. You can really hone your ability to cold approach multiple sets of hotties. Of course, those venues can be pretty hostile to the newbies and most girls there have Game. And they'll know if you have IT or not.