i plan on taking this girl out this weekend for our first date. i havent been on a date since november where i took a girl to a chinse joint since she loved chinese. but the problem here is this girl loves italian food. which means i could take her to a pizzaria or a fancy itlian resturant. what should i do?
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Where to go for a first date?
- Thread starter G Rambo34
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
whats your favorite food? ice cream maybe?
then go get icecream and go to the park. its getting to be summer outside so why not enjoy it.
then go get icecream and go to the park. its getting to be summer outside so why not enjoy it.
2.0
Don Juan
Don't worry about where SHE wants to go. You go where YOU want to go and, since you're a nice guy, let her come along with you.G Rambo34 said:
Feel like going bowling? Great! Go bowling and let her come with you. If you like bowling, this is a great way to avoid awkward conversation. Dinner dates can be stressful because of the conversation they imply.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
A quick tip.
You better go in a place that you have some activity/action . You dont wanna go on a place that (like caffee shops ) where all the focus is in each other because you can make her and yourself feel uncomfortable .
Use search feature you can find lot of threads about this . I saw great dating ideas that users were rating them . It was great thread but i cant remember . Search for it .
Anyway , bowling , amusement park , kino (overdone) and these kind of activities dont fail
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You better go in a place that you have some activity/action . You dont wanna go on a place that (like caffee shops ) where all the focus is in each other because you can make her and yourself feel uncomfortable .
Use search feature you can find lot of threads about this . I saw great dating ideas that users were rating them . It was great thread but i cant remember . Search for it .
Anyway , bowling , amusement park , kino (overdone) and these kind of activities dont fail
.ARrocket
Master Don Juan
A good one is ice skating. It is an action date, so you are not just sitting there staring at each other....gets her adrenaline pumping a bit. Plus, there are SO many opportunities for kino. Also, if the weather is nice, the zoo is a really great place to go....lots of opportunities for C&F
john paul
Senior Don Juan
ARrocket said:the zoo is a really great place to go....lots of opportunities for C&F
You see that elephants ****? Thats what your dealing with tonight, give or take a few inches