i plan on taking this girl out this weekend for our first date. i havent been on a date since november where i took a girl to a chinse joint since she loved chinese. but the problem here is this girl loves italian food. which means i could take her to a pizzaria or a fancy itlian resturant. what should i do?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Where to go for a first date?
- Thread starter G Rambo34
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
whats your favorite food? ice cream maybe?
then go get icecream and go to the park. its getting to be summer outside so why not enjoy it.
then go get icecream and go to the park. its getting to be summer outside so why not enjoy it.
2.0
Don Juan
Don't worry about where SHE wants to go. You go where YOU want to go and, since you're a nice guy, let her come along with you.G Rambo34 said:
Feel like going bowling? Great! Go bowling and let her come with you. If you like bowling, this is a great way to avoid awkward conversation. Dinner dates can be stressful because of the conversation they imply.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
A quick tip.
You better go in a place that you have some activity/action . You dont wanna go on a place that (like caffee shops ) where all the focus is in each other because you can make her and yourself feel uncomfortable .
Use search feature you can find lot of threads about this . I saw great dating ideas that users were rating them . It was great thread but i cant remember . Search for it .
Anyway , bowling , amusement park , kino (overdone) and these kind of activities dont fail
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You better go in a place that you have some activity/action . You dont wanna go on a place that (like caffee shops ) where all the focus is in each other because you can make her and yourself feel uncomfortable .
Use search feature you can find lot of threads about this . I saw great dating ideas that users were rating them . It was great thread but i cant remember . Search for it .
Anyway , bowling , amusement park , kino (overdone) and these kind of activities dont fail
.ARrocket
Master Don Juan
A good one is ice skating. It is an action date, so you are not just sitting there staring at each other....gets her adrenaline pumping a bit. Plus, there are SO many opportunities for kino. Also, if the weather is nice, the zoo is a really great place to go....lots of opportunities for C&F
john paul
Senior Don Juan
ARrocket said:the zoo is a really great place to go....lots of opportunities for C&F
You see that elephants ****? Thats what your dealing with tonight, give or take a few inches