i plan on taking this girl out this weekend for our first date. i havent been on a date since november where i took a girl to a chinse joint since she loved chinese. but the problem here is this girl loves italian food. which means i could take her to a pizzaria or a fancy itlian resturant. what should i do?
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john paul
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whats your favorite food? ice cream maybe?
then go get icecream and go to the park. its getting to be summer outside so why not enjoy it.
then go get icecream and go to the park. its getting to be summer outside so why not enjoy it.
2.0
Don Juan
Don't worry about where SHE wants to go. You go where YOU want to go and, since you're a nice guy, let her come along with you.G Rambo34 said:
Feel like going bowling? Great! Go bowling and let her come with you. If you like bowling, this is a great way to avoid awkward conversation. Dinner dates can be stressful because of the conversation they imply.
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A quick tip.
You better go in a place that you have some activity/action . You dont wanna go on a place that (like caffee shops ) where all the focus is in each other because you can make her and yourself feel uncomfortable .
Use search feature you can find lot of threads about this . I saw great dating ideas that users were rating them . It was great thread but i cant remember . Search for it .
Anyway , bowling , amusement park , kino (overdone) and these kind of activities dont fail
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You better go in a place that you have some activity/action . You dont wanna go on a place that (like caffee shops ) where all the focus is in each other because you can make her and yourself feel uncomfortable .
Use search feature you can find lot of threads about this . I saw great dating ideas that users were rating them . It was great thread but i cant remember . Search for it .
Anyway , bowling , amusement park , kino (overdone) and these kind of activities dont fail
.ARrocket
Master Don Juan
A good one is ice skating. It is an action date, so you are not just sitting there staring at each other....gets her adrenaline pumping a bit. Plus, there are SO many opportunities for kino. Also, if the weather is nice, the zoo is a really great place to go....lots of opportunities for C&F
john paul
Senior Don Juan
ARrocket said:the zoo is a really great place to go....lots of opportunities for C&F
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