I'm underage (not high school aged) so clubs and bars are out of the question. I'm hundreds of miles away from home, work full time, don't go to school. Heck forget chicks, I don't even know where to go to find people who are my age to hang out with. What the **** do I do?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Where the hell do I even find girls?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I could try that I guess. I'm nervous about the whole meeting people online thing however.
Well since I'm under 21 hanging out with older people is usually a problem... at least all the ones I know. They like to go out drinking, and not a whole lot else.
Well since I'm under 21 hanging out with older people is usually a problem... at least all the ones I know. They like to go out drinking, and not a whole lot else.
Make friends and meet girls through them.
You want to hang out with some girls then do something and ask girls (you may even only hardly know) to come along, girls usually will come along a lot more then guys because they are more social and it's what they do.
You want to hang out with some girls then do something and ask girls (you may even only hardly know) to come along, girls usually will come along a lot more then guys because they are more social and it's what they do.
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If you're underaged but not high school aged, you're prepubescent, so I don't see why girls is even an issue yet. And how do you have a job at 13?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Lol sry, underaged has always meant <18, I've been ignoring the drinking age all my life, so I don't think about it.
It's tough though at that age. Most clubs are 18 and up, 21 to drink. Get buzzed at your place, then go pick up chicks there.
It's tough though at that age. Most clubs are 18 and up, 21 to drink. Get buzzed at your place, then go pick up chicks there.
penkitten
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pool hall?
izza
Master Don Juan
Try looking at the search bar, that button up there that will lead you to thousand upon thousands of threads with this very topic...
Why lose out on the wisdom of a generation?
Why lose out on the wisdom of a generation?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Delta
Master Don Juan
it depends on the guy too....
for certain guys, girls come out of the woodwork with uncanny ease.
for other guys, it's like pulling teeth.
for me, it's like pulling teeth.
delta
for certain guys, girls come out of the woodwork with uncanny ease.
for other guys, it's like pulling teeth.
for me, it's like pulling teeth.
delta
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Swing danceFallen33 said:
Tango
Fox trot
and some of the other music types with dance partners.
Once you are good enough, you can teach women on dates
. I have experimented with this and it is working great for me because all I have to do is mention it and women all of a sudden want to learn. I just say, "Would you like me to teach you?"I have a sh!t load of fun with it and I get a lot of kino done on them.
P.S. I used to love slow dancing because it was all that I could do well plus you got good amount of kino, but now I know this and suddenly I absolutely hate slow dancing. It is truely boring.
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