I'm underage (not high school aged) so clubs and bars are out of the question. I'm hundreds of miles away from home, work full time, don't go to school. Heck forget chicks, I don't even know where to go to find people who are my age to hang out with. What the **** do I do?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Where the hell do I even find girls?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could try that I guess. I'm nervous about the whole meeting people online thing however.
Well since I'm under 21 hanging out with older people is usually a problem... at least all the ones I know. They like to go out drinking, and not a whole lot else.
Well since I'm under 21 hanging out with older people is usually a problem... at least all the ones I know. They like to go out drinking, and not a whole lot else.
Make friends and meet girls through them.
You want to hang out with some girls then do something and ask girls (you may even only hardly know) to come along, girls usually will come along a lot more then guys because they are more social and it's what they do.
You want to hang out with some girls then do something and ask girls (you may even only hardly know) to come along, girls usually will come along a lot more then guys because they are more social and it's what they do.
Flabbergasped?
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If you're underaged but not high school aged, you're prepubescent, so I don't see why girls is even an issue yet. And how do you have a job at 13?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Flabbergasped?
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Lol sry, underaged has always meant <18, I've been ignoring the drinking age all my life, so I don't think about it.
It's tough though at that age. Most clubs are 18 and up, 21 to drink. Get buzzed at your place, then go pick up chicks there.
It's tough though at that age. Most clubs are 18 and up, 21 to drink. Get buzzed at your place, then go pick up chicks there.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
pool hall?
izza
Master Don Juan
Try looking at the search bar, that button up there that will lead you to thousand upon thousands of threads with this very topic...
Why lose out on the wisdom of a generation?
Why lose out on the wisdom of a generation?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Delta
Master Don Juan
it depends on the guy too....
for certain guys, girls come out of the woodwork with uncanny ease.
for other guys, it's like pulling teeth.
for me, it's like pulling teeth.
delta
for certain guys, girls come out of the woodwork with uncanny ease.
for other guys, it's like pulling teeth.
for me, it's like pulling teeth.
delta
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Swing danceFallen33 said:
Tango
Fox trot
and some of the other music types with dance partners.
Once you are good enough, you can teach women on dates
. I have experimented with this and it is working great for me because all I have to do is mention it and women all of a sudden want to learn. I just say, "Would you like me to teach you?"I have a sh!t load of fun with it and I get a lot of kino done on them.
P.S. I used to love slow dancing because it was all that I could do well plus you got good amount of kino, but now I know this and suddenly I absolutely hate slow dancing. It is truely boring.
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